Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Hot, Loud Day With A Quiet, Cool Experience

Meeting new people has never been my strong point. Unless I'm forced into a group, I stray from conversation and eye contract—especially those who I find attractive.
     Recently I went to visit some people, mainly to witness an event I had never once encountered. The people's cause was called Walk For ASL, and their goal is to raise awareness of Deafness and signing. They are spending the month of May walking down the California coast.
     On Tuesday, May 28, one of the stops they made was at Leo Carrillo State Beach and set up camp for the night. It's nearby, if not in, the city of Malibu. I drove there in my Mazda Miata, a sporty convertible, and intentionally took a detour through the Santa Monica Mountains because of the windy roads. Beautiful day, beautiful drive. I wouldn't have made the drive and would have instead waited for the team to arrive in Santa Monica, where their walk ended, if I hadn't heard about those roads. I mention this only because I'm a car guy and I appreciate a good road when I find one and would like to let others know.
     When I got to the campsite, I didn't know what to do. I parked a little bit away as to not disturb them—which is silly, because they couldn't hear me arrive. And yet, I continued being quiet and cautious. That's just who I am. I keep my distance and don't like to disturb people. On top of the shyness, there was also a language barrier. So for me, I felt stuck.
     They had three sites reserved for their big group of people, and the sites were spread out. I got out my iPad and typed a greeting and my purpose there, then gave it to one of two women who were setting up things. Written words overcame the language barrier very easily. The woman very kindly and gladly ushered me over to another group of people sitting around a campfire. It was the afternoon and nice weather, but they had a fire going. Okay, sure, that's cool, I guess. Except that I ended up sitting downwind from the fire. Not cool, hot.
     I was introduced to the event coordinator. I showed her my iPad with my typed introduction, and from there, we engaged in a quite meaningful, life-inspiring (but slow) conversation.

     Me: Hi, my name is Kevan, and I'm doing a report for school on Walk For ASL. I can't sign but I would like to learn about your cause. Would you mind typing on here?
     Alison: Welcome! I'm Alison Aubrecht- the walk facilitator. Would be happy to answer any questions you have- go ahead and type them and I'm going to run and grab a copy of our press kit for you.
     M: Thank you! Alright, how does walking the California coast promote ASL?
     A: California, specifically, isn't so much the point—other than the weather here is predictable enough for us to travel 30 days in the outdoors. That aside, walking has given us the opportunity to bring attention to American Sign Language. We give out postcards along the way and have had some media coverage. Plus we have met a lot of folks and have conversed a bit with them.
     M: I'm glad you're doing this! I am in a Deaf Culture class. I went in without prior knowledge, but the class has opened my eyes to these people. I've learned that they are no different than hearing people, and I want to help spread the awareness too.
What brought these people together and commit to making this month-long trip?
     A: Great! What school do you attend?
People signed up for various reasons—most out of a passion to see more attention given to ASL. Some just wanted the physical challenge. Our organization (Facundo Element) wanted to do this in part because we are trying to get our community more familiar with activism, and we felt a good starting point would be to do celebratory activism.
     M: I attend El Camino College, which is in Torrance. It's south of Santa Monica, about 30 minutes away (but with traffic, who knows!). They have a very good ASL division, which I will be enrolled in next semester. I am actually a film major, so making videos and storytelling is also part of who I am.
What sort of change or action do you want to see happen? What does this Walk achieve in the eyes of the public?
     A: I think the first change we need to see is a sense of self-actualization within our community- there is a lot of internalized oppression and a sense of self-defeat. We have already seen this change over the last 28 days—people are inspired, energized. The second thing we wanted to see change is a push for creating space for self-representation—we can and should speak for our own people, about a wide range of issues including the right to learn ASL. This right is often withheld from Deaf children in large part because families are misled by specialists (audiologists) to believe that teaching their Deaf child to sign will impede his/her speech (and there is also an accompanying subliminal statement that this in turn will create barriers to intellectual reasoning). This has been repeatedly disproved but the larger society continues to be uninterested in and unaware of the benefits of ASL. We feel this is in large part due to the fact that ASL is not a profitable enterprise—not a lot of economic power there. Anyway this event was a way to get around that barrier and get word out to a larger audience. Interestingly the other day an interpreter working with Deaf children approached me and said something like "I have been watching every one of your videos and I feel both inspired and uncomfortable." She added that for her, this was a true indication of change happening, that she is recognizing the need to unpack biases she never knew she had about Deaf people.
     M: I recognize that change has been needed and it's inspiring to see it happen today. People, everyone, have become more self-obsessed in this new age of technology and being "connected" through phones and such, and it's a shame to think that this mentality can't be changed. I too want to see people open up again, before the time of instant information, and accept new things without any presumption or bias. I don't understand why hearing people think Deaf people are any lesser of a person. But that's why I'm learning!
     Other things that aren't profitable are beautification of cities and better public education. I know this because I've taken part in helping those causes too. But like those and yourself, they use the media to raise awareness, and that's why I'm here. My questions are limited and you've done a fantastic job in answering them, even the ones I haven't asked yet! So I guess I'll end with, has this been a success? That's difficult to answer, I realize not enough time has passed, but I ask with the intention of seeing that yes, it has, and yes, it will. After all, what does the future have in store?
     A: Yes it has been—and will continue to be with your story. Thank you for taking the time to learn more & share. We are so appreciative of your time. Next: Project Humanity (the title of our organization's long term film project). We want to explore a lot of what you wrote above- what is humanity and where are we going, what could we be? Thanks again for your time. You can contact me at alisonaubrecht@gmail.com with any follow up questions you might have- and please send us a copy of the article once it is published! :)
     M: Great! How do you sign Thank you?

     While Alison would type, another woman sitting at the campfire tried to talk to me. She signed, but I gave her an apologetic look because I couldn't comprehend. She laughed and resorted to her phone for the beginning of our conversation. She asked if I was in high school, so I wrote back, answering that I am in college and some background information. Then we progressed into signing—I know, what? I just said I couldn't, but it's certainly not impossible. I could understand gestures, and figured out that she was trying to ask my name. I wrote it on the phone and she showed me how to say "My name is Kevan." She put her hand to her chest, then two fingers tapping two more fingers, and then finger-spelled my name. I followed instruction, she corrected me, and I finished with a sense of accomplishment. She then showed me her name! I now know how to also say "Your name is Lisa."
     I waved hello and goodbye to the others around the campfire when arriving and leaving, but nothing much more. Sitting there idly while Alison typed and before I talked to Lisa, I stared off into the scenery. In Hearing culture, it's rude to stare, especially to watch or listen in on a conversation; so I felt that way as the others around the fire would sign to each other. I had no idea what was being said, but it still felt wrong to watch. As I've learned in my Deaf Culture class, it's not rude, and in fact, eye contact is required out of respect to "listen" to a conversation. I had this in my mind the whole time but since I couldn't understand, I felt awkward both ways.
     They were all nice people. In a few years’ time, I hope to understand the language and communicate effectively. So far in my life, I haven't knowingly met a Deaf person, so I've never encountered the communication barrier noticed any cultural differences until I started the Deaf Culture class. Beginning with that, and now this event, I am very curious to learn more. In Southern California, in which the second most-spoken language is Spanish, I feel that ASL is a more valuable skill to learn. I could reach the individuals that most other "regular" people can't. And just a semester ago, I was one of those people! I will recommend the class to all, I will pursue learning the natural language, and will do a part in spreading the cause of the fine people of Walk For ASL.


     The one benefit of this interview that is unique to a Deaf person and a non-signing person is that the interview is written, all ready for the report it is to become. Hearing people are vocal and Deaf people are visual; here, the conversation literally becomes part of the report.
     I noticed that on the sheet of paper that lists the requirements for the report, it says to not wait until the last minute to attend an event. And yet, that's exactly what happened. I went to the event the day before it's due, and wrote about it as it was fresh in my memory.

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